I ask because this happened to me yesterday when someone came to where I was sitting and made a big deal about and event coming up. When I asked a legitimate question about the event, she got her panties in a twist. I dropped it because I do not do drama and figured i could get my question answered somewhere else. The subject appeared to be changed so I completely removed myself from the conversation.
Today, she decided to message me asking a derogatory question and being all dramatic, trying to make herself out to be some bad-ass type. My response to her snotty question was, 'Excuse Me?' I was not about to be pulled into some stupid conversation that was so ill timed and childish.
What makes people feel they need to do this? I must ask as I am just stupefied by the entire interaction. Why can't we all just be nice and not try to be so disrespectful to others to try to make ourselves feel big or important.
Personally I think that those who do this really have huge self confidence issues, needing to feel big when internally they feel very small. Me, I really feel sad for them, wishing that they would look internally to figure out what their issues are and then work on them and make themselves feel better internally which will then ooze out instead of trying to hurt others to make themselves feel bigger and better. Do they really feel better hurting others? I sure hope that is not the case.
To those who wish to have drama in their world, to make others feel small in order for themselves to feel big, please keep this to yourselves. We would all be much better if you would just keep your internal issues there and not share. If, however, you need someone to help you, to listen to you, to make you feel better in a positive way, please do not hesitate to ask. I would be glad to help you become a better person.
GOAL: Live in a drama-free zone!
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